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		<title>Confessions of a Serial Couchsurfer</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[I have become seriously addicted to couchsurfing and have a dire need to discuss this dependency with others.]]></description>
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<div class="subtitle">Is there a Couchsurfers&#8217; Anonymous? I have become seriously addicted to couchsurfing and have a dire need to discuss this dependency with others&#8230; </div>
<p><strong>When I took that first step</strong> out of Australia almost four months ago I was a girl on a mission: to travel, entirely supported by couchsurfing, for as long as possible. </p>
<p>I wanted to see places and meet people, but most of all I wanted to immerse myself in the community and experience the life of someone who lived and breathed that city, even if for a few short days.</p>
<p>To date, I have been couchsurfing for approximately 105 days and counting. I have been to over 30 cities and couchsurfed with more than 20 people. There have been many occasions where I found myself  invited to lunches and dinners with friends and families, or to celebrate a birthday, an event, or a holiday.</p>
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<p>Photo by <a target="_blank" href="http://flickr.com/photos/ulikleafar/">leafar.</a></p>
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<h5>Sleeping and living</h5>
<p>Every experience has been unique and magnificent in its own way, so much so that my heart now beats childishly upon arriving in a new city, meeting a new host. Couches are always different, and almost always, a pleasant surprise. </p>
<p>Mine have ranged from sleeping on the floor cuddled up with a cat or a dog, to having my very own bedroom complete with king-sized bed, silk sheets, and marble en suite.</p>
<p>All the places I’ve been to have the smell of home. I love surveying the half-burnt candles resting quietly on the coffee table,  the dog-eared books left on the sofa, the mix of pots and pans in the kitchen.</p>
<h5>Expect the unexpected</h5>
<p>There have been so many instances where my trip would not have been as enjoyable without the community of couchsurfing hosts.</p>
<p>In Cairo, I stayed with a generous soul who shared the services of her private chauffeur and personal maid. It made all the difference, as Cairo is not exactly a female nor pedestrian-friendly city. I was flabbergasted at being driven wherever I wanted, with a kind Egyptian driver who made sure I was not heckled or ripped off at popular tourist spots. </p>
<p>At the end of the day, I went back to a comfortable flat to find clean clothes, a made bed, and a friend to have a drink with.</p>
<p>When I was in Bilbao, I tagged along to one of many fiestas, held in a small building only locals frequented. </p>
<p>I was taken crab-hunting in the far reaches of the Arabian Gulf, an experience that&#8217;s not not in Lonely Planet&#8217;s list of top 10 Dubai experiences! But off I went, and had a fantastic time attempting to catch crabs and dodge crawling sea creatures. At the end of the night, we had a gigantic feast of our catch and treated ourselves to American beer.</p>
<p>I spent Christmas in the Basque region of France with a local family. I experienced first-hand how they celebrated, was treated like part of the family, and got to explore surroundings that I’m sure the average tourist has never set foot upon. I got to eat Basque food, drink Basque wine, and learn Basque history.</p>
<div class="captionleft"><img src="http://matadornetwork.cachefly.net/matadorabroad.com/docs///wp-content/images/posts/20090303-couch03.jpg" />
<p>Photo by <a target="_blank" href="http://flickr.com/photos/blmurch/">blmurch</a></p>
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<h5>Take a chance</h5>
<p>Go on, do it. Couchsurfing has brought me more advantages and joy than I could possibly have ever imagined. I have seen and done so much through the kindness of strangers, who I now call my friends.  I’m afraid my addiction cannot be cured. It’s an affliction that has changed my life, and I never want it to end. Are any others out there?</p>
<h3>COMMUNITY CONNECTION</h3>
<p>Even if you&#8217;re not traveling, you can still experience the pleasures of couchsurfing. Consider being a host after reading <a href="http://www.bravenewtraveler.com/2008/04/16/would-you-let-a-stranger-sleep-on-your-couch/">&#8220;Would You Let a Stranger Sleep on Your Couch?&#8221;</a></p>
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